What's right for you is RIGHT!

We have recently announced that we are expecting our second son and this news has been greeted with mixed comments from friends and family. Hence I have been impelled to write a post regarding the decisions you make as a parent and what is right and wrong.

Firstly, some people felt they needed to give us their opinion on the fact that our two children would have a small age gap between them. Then others inquired if we had planned the pregnancy. Well, yes we had planned him and the age gap between our sons is what we decided was right for our family.

Where children are concerned everybody seems to have an opinion of what is right and wrong and are only too eager to offer their ideas on the matter. Basically I say to all these helpful advisers... what is right for me and my family is right. Every loving parent wants what is best for their child and strives to provide them with the life they see fit. As a parent you work hard day and night to help your child adapt to the outside world and the structure of your family and society. This may include how and when you put your child to bed, the food you decide to feed them and the toy you choose to buy them. All important decisions and all unique to you and your family.

My main point here is that the choices we make as parents are right if they are made consciously and for the best of the child and the family as a whole.

So to anyone who may be doubting their decisions or to those who feel others' decisions are not 'right' i'd like to remind you that no caring parent would carry out something that would deliberately harm their child or family and that every person and family is different. 

We can all agree on one thing and that is that we want what we consider to be the best for our children.

Art activities - chalking

Like drawing, this is another simple activity which aids the process of reading and writing. It is good to give a child different materials to do their mark making and chalk is another cheap option to crayons, pens and pencils.

We have done chalking both on a small chalk board where he can rub out his marks and repeat several times, as well as outside on the pavement or walls. 

Art activities - drawing

A very simple activity which begins the journey to reading and writing. We usually have a quick drawing session each day. I try to sit down and do some drawing with my boy or write something while he has his crayons out such as the shopping list.

We have done many variations of drawing from small pieces of paper to giant ones to opening cardboard boxes on the floor and having a drawing marathon. It's all good practice for the future and our little boy just loves to scribble. He now sends daddy to work with a new picture each week and when he visits the office he can see the value his dad gives to his art work.

Art activities - gluing and sticking

Children love glue! It's another messy one but with the right planning you can reduce the mess stress and let your small people have a lot of fun. 

We use pvc child-safe glue. Ours came in an easy dispensable bottle but a tiny pot and a small paintbrush will do the job just as well.

We used different shapes as our boy is very interested in his shape sorted at the moment and we decided to use the opportunity to enhance his learning of shapes. You can use almost anything. Free magazines, flyers from the supermarket, wrapping paper or like us just some cut out shapes.

To make the activity even richer, we made one of the gluey pictures into a bookmark to give to our boys grandmother for her birthday!

Art activities - playdough

Today's post looks at playdough. 

This wasn't a very successful activity in our house which I believe could be down to the texture of the playdough. But don't let that put you off trying this cheap and easy activity! We'll be giving it another go in a week or two. 

The recipe

2 cups of flour

1 cup of salt

2 cups of water

2 tablespoons of oil

food colouring

Heat the ingredients in a pan over a low heat until they form a firm dough. Remove from the heat, allow to cool then add a few drops of food colouring and kneed the dough until the colour is spread evenly. 

This activity is great for teaching colours and when the child is older you can show them how to make new clours by mixing primary colours together!

Art Activities - Finger painting

To start our set of art activities we're kicking off with finger painting. This is a nice way to introduce your young child to paint and you can control the mess by limiting the amount of paint you use and by having a bowl of soapy water nearby!

I always give my boy one colour at a time as he is still young and gets a bit overwhelmed with more than one ending up with the paint going everywhere! This is an activity we have done with him since birth when we took hand and feet prints on a regular basis.

As Easter has been in the air we decided to use the finger prints to make little cards. It's always lovely to follow up an activity in this way as it makes it more purposeful. Even if the child knows they are painting a picture for someone, they will be more motivated with any activity.

Practical life activities - washing the windows

Today's activity - Washing the windows

This one is really simple. While I am cleaning the windows using window cleaner, he is using a damp cloth on the lower parts. It's great to see how he copies my movements and really goes to town!

All you need here is a clean cloth and to be careful they don't get too close to any cleaning products (sometimes easier said than done)! I usually encourage him to clean the patio doors so he isn't standing on a chair.

For older children a spray bottle with water and a squeegee can make the process more elaborate. Remember to give them a cloth to mop up the excess water!!!!